
What if we took a thought leap. What if we had to write an article about the positive contribution dementia can offer. To the individual concerned. To their friends and family. To society at large.
Some of the ideas that came out of the brainstorm were:
- those with dementia remind us of how to live in the present moment, free of history and expectations
- we realise the benefits of a non-dementia state and may appreciate them more
- the unusual interpretations can be enjoyed - maybe they show us a whole different way of seeing
- those with dementia still carry memories of times nobody else may be able to remember - giving us a chance to log and preserve those memories
When you have a pressing Problem, why not give yourself a break and look at it from the other side of the mirror for ten minutes. It will probably restore your energy and sense of humour and it may just revolutionise your thinking.
(cartoon from Val Jones, founder of http://www.getbetterhealth.com)
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ReplyDeletewow. idiot
ReplyDeleteevery time I leave the room and re-enter , to MOm it is as if I just got there.
ReplyDeleteWhat a good example of following the dalai Lama's notion that if you look carefully enough at any situation you will find something good in it.
ReplyDeleteAnother good thing about dementia is that it gives others a chance to love, to love the demented person, and care for her. Another is that it may prompt others to fight against the habits and conditions that may lead to dementia or increase the chances of getting it or worsen its effects, such as obesity and lack of physical activity and anything (else) that reduces circulationl of blood to the brain..
Thanks Walter, I love the Dalai Lama idea - worth applying in so many situations
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